Francie also got an alone night with Mom. She had a tough time adjusting to it at first, classic middle child. She kept worrying about whether we should have invited Henry. That said, once she realized that my response to nearly every question was "you pick, it is your night", she started to realize she was going to have fun. She chose bowling, burgers, Powells......and then wanted me to take her to Police Station...at 9 at night....needless to say, we went to Whole Foods instead - where I let her choose a dessert.